Many of us have left the big social media platforms; far more of us *wish* we could leave them; and even those of us who've escaped from Facebook/Insta and Twitter still spend a lot of time trying to figure out how to get the people we care about off of them, too.

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If you'd like an essay-formatted version of this thread to read or share, here's a link to it on pluralistic.net, my surveillance-free, ad-free, tracker-free blog:

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what a wonderfully inspiring thread/blog post! thank you thank you thank you!

it reminded me of a phrase in pt_BR: "ninguém solta a mão de ninguém", that comes out in en as "nobody let go of anyone's hand", as in "let's not leave anyone behind, and resist together". it went viral at around the time bolsonaro got elected president. it seemed so fitting to (unintentionally?) bring this back to mind on the day trump got reinaugurated.

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The TL, DR is that there are many good reasons people are locked in shitty platforms and we can care about those people and build routes for them to safety.

Yes, it is good to be out and about in the fediverse AND it is good to care about others who are meeting their needs in the best way they can at the moment while we work on evacuating those cesspools and finding ways to get those beautiful babies out of that locked in bathwater

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I disagree with the conclusion, as I’ve disagreed before: we’re not in 80’s, 90’s, 00’s or 10’s anymore. Audre Lord might’ve been wrong back then but she’s right now. The political landscape, rules and regulations, how we interact with tech, who interacts with tech, everything is different now. “Free our feeds” initiative is akin to “vote with your wallet”: how much donation it can gather will be eclipsed by potential profits in the long run, and we don’t need to be geniuses to see which one VCs will force the management to choose
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When I left Facebook 8 years ago, I posted announcements for several weeks and sent direct messages to the people I cared about the most, requesting their contact info. Hardly anyone responded to my direct posts and none of my Facebook contacts, except my family members, have maintained any contact with me.

I have emailed the friends who I had email addresses for but hardly anyone responds to email either. I think many people's emails are over run with spam so they hardly check email any more.

The whole situation just makes me really sad.

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Well written, well said. I still suspect that the advertising revenues that support these crappy services are a bit of emperor's new clothes, and there's a internet advertising bubble due for a burst. Anyone who has to stay on these parasitic feeds, please ignore, block and don't click any ad links. Do your best to screw with the funding!

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Maybe the collective action problem gets easier in small increments. Like intermittent fasting, but for toxic and #enshittified social media platforms.

I'm deleting all Meta platforms for at least a week. And I'm looking forward to the attention span I get back from just focusing on the Fediverse and real life.

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LB: I think I agree with everything @pluralistic says here. Every time I got to a "but..." [finger raised] place, he either addressed it or went in a different direction than I was expecting.

This also answers my own question about "why not Mastodon?", also asked by many others.

My only question now is "can I get hired to work on this..."

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One of the early superman issues had him lock a mine owner down in the mine to teach him empathy.

These aren't problems one person solves. Pretending that the wealthy are powerful, that our current money is a game there is no alternative to play, is how we silo our imagination.

Superman needs supervillains, nations need enemies, humans need each other.

We need to imagine something more interesting than these dorks!

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we'll watch the next big protest never happen due to lack of common communication channels. We'll think that a lot of people don't care. That's why dictators and wannabes happily invested in the Twitter black hole purchase. Fragmentation is the goal. What's the next best thing to the assumed benevolent dictator who owns and may sell the place we (a much much larger we) meet and organize?

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Yes, changing social media will offer some obstacles, but massive and successful protests happened before the Internet and social media existed. Seems incredible now. The 1963 March on Washington for Jobs and Justice surpassed 200,000 and was organized by telephone and in person conversations by Bayard Rustin and team. When certain social media outlets are captured or compromised as organizing tools, the organizing will move to other tools, including texts and (shudder) phone calls.
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I spent a decade riding a bicycle around the streets of Toronto with a stack of fliers and a bucket of wheatpaste, winter and summer, trying to get people out for mass demonstrations.

It worked, sometimes.

But if you think that we can do that labor intensive work without losing time and capacity to do more meaningful organizing, I have a bucket of wheat-paste I can lend you.

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I spent a decade riding a bicycle around the streets of Toronto with a stack of fliers and a bucket of wheatpaste, winter and summer, trying to get people out for mass demonstrations.

It worked, sometimes.

But if you think that we can do that labor intensive work without losing time and capacity to do more meaningful organizing, I have a bucket of wheat-paste I can lend you.