Time is often on my mind. The fact it’s the most precious resource we have. How time is the great equalizer: it doesn’t matter if you’re rich or poor, a malevolent billionaire or an unpaid volunteer: you have the exact same amount of minutes and hours available in any given day. We’re all the same in this respect. (Sure, single parents who need to have 2 jobs for basic survival have a great deal of stress compared to a wealthy retiree, but let’s not nitpick for this exercise, ok?)
Earlier this morning I posted this message to Mastodon:
To people despairing about the state of the world, let me help put things in perspective, time-wise. As the mom of a child turning 4 this week, I know very well how long 4 years feel.Friends who are parents would tell me: “the days are long but the years are short.” It’s absolutely accurate.
I say: make this time matter.
In 4 years my child learned to walk, talk, became fully fluent in 2 languages and is now a LEGO wiz.
How will you use these next 4 years?
When the worst people in the world are running a large, powerful country, with mainstream media normalizing their horrid behavior, it is normal to feel despair. Even if, like me, you’re on the other side of the Atlantic. There is a natural sense of powerlessness taking over.
This morning I was thinking that I’m a little envious of my daughter because she’s completely shielded from these events. She’s a French/Italian little girl growing up in Paris. She has no idea about what is happening and she cannot read yet or put events in a historical context.
The next four years – dreadful for us adults – hold exciting opportunities for her. At the end of the current kakistocracy, come January 2029, my child will be 8 years old. In the four years to come she will learn to read and write. The time span from 4 to 8 is one of expansive learning. I’m privileged to be by her side, guiding her. And I’m also taking this time to learn.
Last month, on December 5th, I published the blog post “Introducing: my so-called sudo life“, discussing my plans to rebel against oligarchs and tech barons.
I wrote:
In the days following November 6th I sketched a plan – for my own self care: set 4 goals for the next 4 years – 2 internal (self-improvement) and two “external” (helping others).
Goal number 1 was “learning Linux” so I could eventually self-host my own Fediverse instance. I wrote this on December 5th, signed up for a virtual private server (VPS) on December 17th, installed the federated microblogging software GoToSocial on December 22nd, and I’ve been running my own Fediverse instance for a month now. Last week I started self-hosting photos via the platform Pixelfed (an alternative to Instagram). So: goal 1 has been already accomplished! I thought it would take at least 3 years, but all it took was less than 3 weeks. All credit goes to YunoHost, a system that allows people with little to no technical knowledge to self-host, with crystal clear, easy to follow guides.
Goal number 2 was learning a new foreign language. I’m already fully fluent in Italian (my mother tongue), English and French. In my blog post I hesitated between Spanish and Japanese. Well, earlier this week I made my choice. For MAXIMUM impact I’m going with Spanish, a language spoken by 500 million people. Japan will always have a soft spot in my heart, so I may pick up again learning hiragana, katakana and kanji, but Spanish could really help with my Fediverse evangelism.
Goal number 3 is preparing presentations about the Fediverse for schools – and making those widely available for others, in case they wanted to tweak/re-use them. I have yet to start that, but it’s my big goal for 2025.
Goal number 4 is: “help make the Fediverse a more diverse place, safer and more welcoming for people of color.” GoToSocial and its granular settings have been eye-opening when it comes to creating a safe space for oneself online. Naturally I will keep on working and advocating for this goal in the coming years.
A MIM system
I’ve created a very simple system to keep track of my progress: I call it my MIM (make it matter) system. What is it? It’s just a calendar printout on which I write my actions. This is a powerful reminder of the things I have done and the progress I’ve made. I like how tangible and empowering it feels to be filling it out (instead of having an electronic version of it). I’ve color-coded it so items in yellow refer to my self-hosting efforts, pink ones are related to the books I’m reading and those in pastel blue are articles I have published.
It looks like this:
What about you, what do you have in store for the next four years?
– Elena
P.S.: I’m now hosting all my links here: elena.social
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[vc_column_text]“Think of grief, anger, worry as bricks or planks of wood. Stop staring at the materials, half believing they were delivered to you by mistake, half expecting a truck to haul them away. Accept that these are your materials right now. Start building.”
– Maggie Smith, from her book Keep MovingI’ve been feeling a lot of grief, anger and worry since the morning of November 6th 2024, when the results of the US presidential election were announced. Never in a million years I would have expected a convicted felon, an openly xenophobic, racist, transphobic misogynist and insurrectionist to be voted by half the country and allowed to ascend – yet again – to the most powerful job in his country. All this aided and abetted by a group of tech billionaires.
Four years is a long time. But it can also go by fast: ask this to any parent of a small child. As they say: the days are long but the years are short.
Instead of wallowing in this grief and anger, I have resolved to make this time – these four years – matter. It makes me feel better and more empowered to set some high goals, so that by January 2029 I could look back and think to myself: I have grown and helped others during these tumultuous four years. I made good use of that time.
Thus, “my so-called sudo life”.
What does “my so-called sudo life” mean?
sudo (short for “superuser do”) is a command on Unix systems that grants “superpowers” to a user, allowing them to execute commands with elevated privileges, like an admin.This cartoon by xkcd was the first Linux joke I ever got:
I found it apt to name a blog about my new journey of (mostly tech) resistance and empowerment after that command line.
4 Goals for the next 4 years
In the days following November 6th I sketched a plan – for my own self care: set 4 goals for the next 4 years – 2 internal (self-improvement) and two “external” (helping others).Goal 1: learn Linux, a free, open source operating system to set myself free from Big Tech monopolies. Sub goal no. 1: become so proficient in Linux that I could create a Linux computer, a Linux tablet and a Linux phone for my child (when the time comes, she’s 3 now). Sub goal no.2: become so proficient I can host my own Fediverse instance.
Goal 2: learn a new foreign language. I’m already fully fluent in Italian (my mother tongue), English and French. I love how learning a new language feels energizing and allows you to better understand new cultures. Well, I haven’t officially picked a new language yet. It’s currently a toss-up between Spanish (which I already understand well, because it’s similar to Italian) and Japanese (my favorite country to visit and added bonus: I could interact with people on MissKey). For the challenge aspect I’m leaning towards Japanese… yet I acknowledge Spanish would be a more realistic goal.
Goal 3: start doing presentations in high schools and universities about the Fediverse and FOSS projects, in order to raise awareness about the toxic side of Big Tech and the free, open-source alternatives that already exist and are much better from an ethical / digital sovereignty point of view.
Goal 4: help make the Fediverse a more diverse place, safer and more welcoming for people of color.
The rebellion will be federated
In a previous blog post I wrote:What do billionaires and kleptocrats want? Uninformed, impulsive citizens driven by emotions (fear, rage, anxiety) instead of critical thinking. This way, they are so much easier to manipulate – for the gains of kleptocrats.
And:A healthy (in body and mind), active, frugal, sociable, mostly offline citizen who is highly educated and informed, in full control of their data, avoiding Big Tech’s platforms and algorithms, with a positive self-esteem and self-image, is probably persona non grata for [these] tech billionaires.
I found goals that will propel me forward for the next four years – with a sense of hope. And that feels awesome (amidst all this chaos and sorrow).4 Years
I’m in the unique position of being able to measure time in comparison to a US presidential term: I was heavily pregnant during the January 6th 2021 U.S. Capitol attack; my child was born during the early days of the Biden presidency and will turn 4 after Trump is sworn in as president.Over the course of 4 years I have seen my tiny human grow, get stronger and develop new intellectual and motor skills. So many skills! I remember when she could barely hold a spoon in her hand. Now she builds impossible structures with LEGOs. She went from being non-verbal and communicating through cries to… speaking two languages fluently. She actually loves correcting my French pronunciation from time to time (“rue” “en dessous”). We figured out she understands a bit of English, too, but keeps that knowledge secret from us.
You can grow and learn so much in four years.
Power
This is my so-called sudo life, where I am giving myself superuser privileges… and I look forward to seeing what kind of person I will be in four year’s time. More than anything, I hope I will be part of a community of like-minded people, working towards the same goals.This blog – or journal – is for accountability… to keep me motivated on these goals. And to share lessons I learned, hoping to inspire others to take steps towards greater digital sovereignty.
It feels very Wizard of Oz like: “You’ve always had the power my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself.”
We already have so much power. There has never been a better time to take on superuser privileges (with care).
I shared my goals. What will be yours?
Elena
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Unknown parent • • •Thank you Carol! You’ve got all my support from across the Atlantic. It’s our one world.
On a side note: I’m super impressed by everything you managed to do (MBA, side hustle, with a young child and another on the way). Bravissima! Truly inspiring.
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in reply to Elena Rossini • • •That's good advice. Setting achievable goals and acknowledging that you achieved them is so important.
And yes, time is so important. 😶 Especially with kids I notice that I want to do so much but have little time.
What are my goals for the next 4 years?...
1) Finish renovation the upper floor of the house so that the kids have their own rooms
2) Make my Nextcloud instance setup better
3) Get the class chatgroup from WA to NC Talk
4) Start a TTRPG course at the local youth club
Elena Rossini
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