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@jhamby @benroyce @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi @kissane I don't get creepy DMs here, but ... ah ... I think that's because people might be frightened to try after seeing what I do to people in public view. (Private would be worse. Trust me.)
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@ZDL @jhamby @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
the problem with trolls is i view them as entertaining. they're fun to mock, it doesn't matter how toxic they get, i just grab more popcorn and feed them more rope for them to hang themselves

then when i get bored with them, i report what i've drawn out of them, and they get nuked

win/ win

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce @jhamby @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi I favour just going straight for the aorta, letting "syllables of slaughter cut with calm precision".

The popcorn is for watching the life fade from their horrified eyes.

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@ZDL @jhamby @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
me and this other guy got into this long drawn out mocking back and forth with a vatnik a couple of weeks ago, 2 on 1

then their server's admin showed up in the thread, told the vatnik they aren't welcome with their putin apologist bs, and nuked the entire account. 2 year old account, lots of comments, the whole thing, deleted, gone

we didn't call the admin, he just sort of noticed the pathetic thread and joined in

it was a sight to behold

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce @ZDL @jhamby @90sScriptKiddiw
I found this a profound statement about finding trolls entertaining. As someone who had a childhood filled with being trolled in real life, I've developed a muscle of just ignoring people behaving as such. I don't find it entertaining myself, and have never felt good or accomplished anytime I did choose to engage, but many seem to. I don't revel in conflict persisting, I truly want to find ways to bring people together.
in reply to Mizzi

good faith honest interaction is the standard

if someone breaks that, i usually ignore them

if they break it hard, with ridiculous lies and DARVO bullshit, i mock them

and why? 1. they are so ridiculous it is, in honesty, funny. 2. i'm fishing for reportable posts

i'm primarily talking about vatniks, people who tow the FSB disinfo line

outright racist sexist homophobic transphobic etc bigots- yeah, not funny, instant report

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I hesitate to add to the atmosphere of dread, but Meta's increasingly unfettered acceleration of the kinds of messages that precede genocides is so alarming.

And—how to say this… Avoiding Meta platforms doesn't confer a get-out-of-atrocities-free card. This is why I'm so focused on the need to build broadly appealing, maximally accessible alternative platforms.

I understand, "It's good if the fediverse stays niche," but that's a solution for a tiny number of people.

in reply to Erin Kissane

i feel this struggle. ive BEGGED local friends to dump facebook. but im also the president of my HOA (i have stories. weird ones.) and monday's meeting there was one homeowner that was basically ordering the board members to 'get on the facebook group, because thats where everyone is'.

im 110% in favor of getting folks off facebook - the challenge is competing with the convenience. I'm sure this is of absolutely no surprise to you though, heh

in reply to Erin Kissane

"People should just think more critically about technology" is not a solution. "Normies just love their evil dopamine and dumb celebs, let them suffer" is not a solution.

"I don't believe people when they say it's unpleasant or confusing because it's not for me" is not a solution.

"But Threads!" is not a solution.

The window for making fedi a robust and substantial part of an alternative pluriverse of networks is not going to be open forever, I don't think.

in reply to Erin Kissane

I am hopeful about the changes at Mastodon. I think IFTAS is doing absolutely crucial work with very little support. I've come around on bridging, as wildly imperfect as it is, as a stop-loss and a way of keeping fedi more viable for more people who are willing to accept the (nebulous) trade-offs.

But also I love the federated model and I want it to be a real option for more people in more places, so it's discouraging to keep hitting "eh screw the normies" when the societal risks are so high.

in reply to Erin Kissane

We really need to talk someday :)
(and probably sooner than later)
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in reply to Erin Kissane

I wouldn't have posted this knowing I wouldn't be around to look at replies but I have to get offline now for unexpected reasons, so any responses will be slow/in a few days.

The point was, "Niche alternatives will not prevent societal damage wrought by giant corporate platforms knowingly accelerating the worst things humans do to each other, and alt-network advocates better grapple with that *right now*." The rest is commentary.

in reply to Erin Kissane

I think the "works for me" attitude of fossbros/techbros towards users that just want a computer that works out of the box is also the reason why people stick with Windows or Mac OS X instead of switching to GNU/Linux because the latter is still too complicated, especially when something doesn't work out of the box.

It's a good thing when the fediverse services don't make the same mistake with their users.

(GNU/Linux user and free, libre open source software enthusiast here)

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in reply to Erin Kissane

I don't follow. Individual instances are niche. The fediverse, by definition, is not. Not that this fact necessarily helps much on its own!
in reply to Large Heydon Collider

@heydon Niche as in about a million people and shrinking vs. billions of people. If we want society-level effects, we have to be providing better options for the big groups as well. (Currently Bluesky is getting most of the Meta-leavers, and I wish fedi could offer its real benefits to more of them.)
in reply to Erin Kissane

Agreed. I don't see no issue in enjoying niche open tools and such, and being seen as a geek/activist by friends and family that find all this way too complicated. But we have to listen to them when they say "it's too complicated", understand precisely why they don't use these tools, and work hard towards a better visibility and understanding both ways. Cause it's worth it, but there's a lot of work to be done to make it happen. And if we fail, the Internet we love may be kind of done.
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@katzenberger I don't do super-long comments so I will point you here for my thoughts on refuge and broad connection: wrecka.ge/against-the-dark-for…

"Becoming an outsourced moderation center that ultimately mandates what is ok, on every instance: not fine." This isn't what IFTAS does or has ever done. People project so much onto a tiny org building out the tooling moderators have requested, and although scrutiny is essential, I think it would be helpful to avoid making up scenarios from whole cloth.

in reply to Erin Kissane

Thanks, will get back to here after I've read it.

Before I forget, on the IFTAS part of my reply, because that's a quick one: "Future classification services will include hash and match options for non-consensual intimate images, terroristic and violent extremism content, spam, and more." (IFTAS) - in the EU, we just had this hash-and-match discussion, and fought against it. The reason simply being that it can be extended from alleged CSAM to just about anything (apart from authoritarian states having their very own understanding of "terrorist" content). Just to make it clear where I'm coming from.

Looking forward to read your text.

about.iftas.org/activities/mod…

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@katzenberger As I said, this is not a place where I do long posts—my server doesn’t accommodate blog-length posting—so I’ll keep this tight:

We do indeed disagree. I do not endorse your summary of my work—a remarkable number of hostile assumptions and assertions bolted on, along with some points of genuine disagreement. And I think comparing an unencrypted social network to basements where genocide victims can hide is pretty shaky foundational metaphor.

in reply to Erin Kissane

@katzenberger I do have strong concerns about hash and match used for anything other than CSAM, and will probably bail if IFTAS moves in that direction, but at the moment it’s purely about CSAM. I think positioning CSAM hash and match as a slippery slope that must therefore not be provided is a mess of an argument that denies local and community agency and expressed needs.
in reply to Erin Kissane

We do indeed disagree on many points, including your assessment of my reply.

Thank you for taking the time to reply, I'll leave it at that.

in reply to katzenberger 🇺🇦

@katzenberger (Oops, sorry for tacking on another, I was still writing and didn’t see this. Should have numbered mine.)
in reply to Erin Kissane

Never mind, I was a bit put off by the IMO unsubstantiated claim of "hostility", but I guess that if we ever meet in person and feel mutually inclined to discuss this topic, we'll have an interesting time. Have a good day.
in reply to Erin Kissane

@katzenberger (I *think* a context that may not have come across is that the essay I linked is rooted in an elite panic in US technology circles, centering above all on terror of getting canceled.)

Anyway! My orientation remains toward local norms governed locally, connecting more broadly as suits each community.

Possibly we could cut through the confusion here if we met elsewhere, but I don’t see further engagement of this kind benefitting anyone, so I’m going to tap out.

in reply to Erin Kissane

I personally don’t understand how anything is considered more “ethical” when it’s fine with segregation of normies
in reply to Erin Kissane

there's been a lot of criticism against the IFTAS though – it's not all "screw the normies", there's the whole thing about the proximity to the self-proclaimed moderation authorities that push comically terrible blocklists that insist that every single trans/queer instance is somehow racist
in reply to Val Packett 🧉

@valpackett So two things here—one, my mention of IFTAS is a sidenote about many things that could help and has very little to do with my central points.

Two, there's a some lore (non-derrogatory) about IFTAS "pushing" Bad Space or equivalent via FediCheck and as far as I can tell as an earnest semi-outsider, that isn't happening? IFTAS just recommends CARIAD (connect.iftas.org/library/ifta…) for new admins and has no working relationship with anyone in that whole schism.

in reply to Erin Kissane

@valpackett Also! I am happy to admit that I wasn't there when the Deep Magic Was Written etc, and I don't want to express excessive certitude/ IFTAS looks to me like an org that is trying very had to keep clear of trouble and make tooling we desperately need here, so I am trying to help with that stuff. That doesn't mean I'm ready to accept collateral damage to queer/trans fedi, and I continue to talk to people about this but it does seem like there's some confusion I can't get my head around.
in reply to Erin Kissane

@valpackett Anyway—"Collateral damage" should be in quotes because I hate that whole complex. Nothing good can be built on scapegoating.

I have to get completely offline now for a bit for unexpected reasons, please forgive slow responses.

in reply to Erin Kissane

Agreed. It's amazing how much having a well designed website can help someone install an application that they'd otherwise never consider -- Even when they have a trusted person helping them. Small things matter.
in reply to Erin Kissane

I don't see there being a "window" so to speak. The structure of the Internet is fundamentally decentralised (despite what you may hear about "Web 3.0" and its claim about it). So long as that structure exists, the fediverse remains viable. Its strategy for palatability, sustainability, and overall "approachability" may need to change, but that ties into a lot of leftist principles.
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in reply to Erin Kissane

This is one of the big sources of frustration for me with how little communication and progress there is on big issues that affect Mastodon specifically (e.g. limiting replies, post migration). I want those things because I want fedi to succeed and Mastodon is one of the biggest players, but many of the "difficult" requests and suggestions have had seemingly no real progress or communication in 6+ years, so it feels like this window is being squandered github.com/mastodon/mastodon/i…
in reply to Erin Kissane

Thank you for saying this, I wish more people would have this realization.

Too many people here are satisfied with not taking part of problematic socials instead of figuring out how decentralized platforms can be a solution for everyone.

in reply to Erin Kissane

100% agree yeah, i have frequently criticized the "clubhouse" mentality mastodon.social/@jplebreton/11…
in reply to Erin Kissane

there is no other solution than digital and media literacy, just as there wasn't for reading and mathematics literacy back in the day. Or now for that matter.
in reply to Erin Kissane

The massive increase in pixelfed users gives me some hope wrt onboarding 👍
in reply to Erin Kissane

I get what you’re saying, but Facebook employs 7,000 software developers in Seattle alone, and #Mastodon has 3 payrolled employees. It already punches way above what it should in terms of development.

I’m in full support of ActivityPub, I have my own of Mastodon and PeerTube. If @loops ever gets to the point of being fully decentralised I’ll have one of those too. I’m fully invested in it. That being said:

in reply to Erin Kissane

Your not adding but Validating others opinion of same.
I don't want a civil war, on the other hand we ain't doormats fer FASCIST FUCKING SAVAGES either.
And yeah, hundreds of thousands of Americans Murdered under tRUMP's Covid negligence, told the .01%
That their Racist/elitist Agendas by Heritage Foundation is werking
in reply to Erin Kissane

What's worse is that they have prior art. FB's refusal to moderate was the principal reason that hatred against Rohingya was amplified and led to genocide.

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in reply to Erin Kissane

I just want to turn this thread into a warm blanket and wrap everyone up in it

Spot on word for word no notes

in reply to Erin Kissane

what are the current best options for a FB alternative? The part I find most useful is local events planning, so that would be part of what I'm looking for.

Someone yesterday posted a list of Fedi places, and I looked them up, and their descriptions were all "open source end to end peer to peer encryption that facilitate communication" which tells me nothing about what it does.

in reply to Erin Kissane

It's the ease of use that attracts the majority of users. People who have used them for years don't want the learning curve of other platforms. Designs need to appeal to non-techies if substitutes for Twitter and Facebook are to lure people away. And they need to offer the same sort of features that the users like.
in reply to Erin Kissane

I think you're right.

I am a bit worried that the current social model on the fedi won't scale. A lot of people find racism and arrogance here, and that is the sort of thing that can cause problems.

That said, the growing pains would probably be better than staying on Meta...

in reply to Erin Kissane

You've hit the nail on the head about why "leave the masses to their bad platforms and build a niche alternative" is not an overall good strategy. It shouldn't be difficult but I hear the "we should stay small" thing here *a lot*
in reply to Tom Walker

@tomw I also hear some denigrating the entirety of the content and people on the big tech platforms like they want to pull the ladder on them. I want this place to be safe and welcoming both because I want that for other people, but also because it will make this a much richer environment.
in reply to Erin Kissane

I am perplexed by anyone who would think that the fediverse staying niche is a good idea.
in reply to Mizzi

@themizzi
they don't want "the normies"

they fear an #eternalseptember

thing is, since this is federation, anyone worried about that can keep their niche communities separate and never encounter "the normies"

and, like erin said, we want "the normies" here

otherwise they get mindwiped by plutocrat agendas on centralized #socialmedia

to do that we have to make the process of getting into the #fediverse dead simple

dead. simple.

even picking a server is a step too high for many

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⬆️ @kissane >> I understand, "It's good if the #fediverse stays niche," but that's a solution for a tiny number of people.

@benroyce >> they don't want "the normies"… even picking a server is a step too high for many

👍

Even the dichotomy between #techies and #normies is facile, disrespectful, and uninviting. We need everybody to feel welcome and not force them to make choices like picking a server.

Is it possible to automatically select a sensible default and allow easy migration?

@themizzi

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in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce @themizzi seriously, if it isn't as easy as plugging a box into a wall and connecting it to a display, it just won't make the dent necessary for humanity as a whole to escape the autocratic clutches. Start with the home units first. Package it with a fun remote with some snappy hot keys, scroll, point and mini keyboard. Label it as some kind of retro throwback device, to not have to get into all the surveillance details of mobile gadgetry. That can come later. They wouldn't require much energy, wouldn't need a moderation team or a crap ton of storage since they wouldn't be housing all the people "centralizing" on a single server. Your house, your rules. Invite some friends over and have some fun!

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@benroyce @themizzi
In my opinion, the problem for non tech people is the word server. It is intimidating.

We should call it community and use a step by step form for account creation.

Step 1 : Do you want to join a cummunity based on your interests, your location or a general purpose community?

Step 2 : What your interests? / Where do you live?

The form may be served centrally or exist on each instances that want to be part of the process and account creation is federated.

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@manager @themizzi
agreed 100%

my only addition is it should be a slim handful of questions, 1-2 is ideal. like "list 3 hashtags you're interested in"

it has to be as brief of a grab as possible

then they get auto-assigned based on that

and you're right. the word "server" should not exist anywhere, and "community" is an excellent stand in term

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

I've been on Friendica since October. Admittedly, I did have to do some research to learn about the Fediverse, different platforms, etc. But the concept of "instance" made sense once I read about it. It's like peer-to-peer sharing. Instead of everyting being on one site, there are different ones. And no, the word server didn't scare me. Everything on the Internet is on one server or another. It's just that, instead of it belonging to one company, individual users run their own. So while they're all on Friendica, in my case, each instance has its own theme and rules. It's like going to school. Each class is different, but they're all in the same building. That said, I do like the idea of some kind of centralised list of servers or a survey that one can take to guide one toward finding a good instance. I suppose there could be one with maybe three questions, but for those of us who really want to find something that matches well with our personalities, we could have a longer survey.
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@benroyce @themizzi Every community either hits Eternal September or dies.

Those are the two possible fates of any community. I have seen it too many times.

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce @themizzi More than not wanting the normies I think it’s more about the normies coming in and complaining about what makes the fediverse great. Then promoting X centralized service that they like because it’s more similar to the service they had to leave due to enshittification. They feel entitled to dictate the standard, but have no concept of contribution: eg. Making optional personalization algorithms so that they can feel more at home.

1/2

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@90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
Utterly disagree

With an influx moderation difficulties increase, yes. So we get the resources to scale along with the challenges. It's not impossible

Worst case scenario a server can't keep up and we wall it off and let it sink under the weight of bots and trolls

Your other rationale is fine, but it's a personal rationale not a rationale for everyone

So make your own archipelago of servers

Don't demand the whole fediverse comply with your standards

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
Those are the two opposing worldviews, aren't they? Keep it local and community-based and hope for the best re: moderation vs. try to be welcoming and deal with scaling up to deal with challenges.

I think there needs to be a strong agreed-upon code of conduct for the main federation that's not like Threads in that people aren't allowed to be called objects, or mentally ill, or otherwise bullied or ridiculed or made to feel unwelcome.

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@jhamby @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
check out my profile: i'm vehemently opposed to bluesky bridge and threads federation

the idea is we get more "normies" here by making it easier to get into

that's completely separate from the idea of the mastodon ethos

we never stop squashing racism, transphobia, homophobia, misogyny, etc

that will, indeed, catch a lot of "normies"

so be it

we need to catch a larger population of the merely tech illiterate/ phobic/ shy

we never accept bigotry

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@benroyce @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
Exactly. So that's already been sorted out, I'm 100% on your side that this is just a question of organizing people who are willing to volunteer anyway.

A case of routing people to an appropriate server, getting them comfortable with the culture, etc..

If you tell people, this is the federated service that doesn't tolerate bigotry then they'll want to find their friends on the new service (already solved) and pick a server. How to choose servers?

in reply to jhamby

@benroyce @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
The thing I see as both a strength and a weakness is that different servers have different versions of the software and different rules about max length of messages and things like that. I can't figure out how to do styled text from the Web interface on my server. Markdown style *bold* doesn't seem to work.

That inconsistency allows for innovation with fallback, which is great, but people are going to want to avoid what they see as sub-optimal.

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@benroyce @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
The best that I can picture is some Consumer Reports-style 2D chart of all the most popular servers with easy new user sign-up. I've already seen a site that has a list of all the servers that aren't federated with Threads, have daily backups, and a few other criteria, but it's sorted by geography.

How do I know what features are offered and does geography matter at all? The server I'm on is in Germany, but it doesn't matter at all to me.

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@jhamby @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
that's what you do

sign up would consist of "where are you?" "what are you interested in?" (hashtags) etc (although the less questions the better)

and then servers will have already signed up to accept new users

as long as they meet certain standards of moderation, software and server hardware, etc (your consumer reports rating)

then they are fed new users

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
That makes perfect sense. I figure it's like vehicles. I could swear up and down that the used Toyota Prius Plug-In is the best car in the world for me, but many people have different use cases so it helps if Mastodon servers are competing for positive word-of-mouth recommendations by providing good experiences.

But there also need to be some equivalent of auto review sites that talk about Mastodon.social is the Toyota Camry and XYZ is a Porsche.

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@jhamby @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
for later, when people are shopping around for a new server, yes

but in the beginning, for ease, it has to be auto-assigned (no pun intended)

so noobs are basically getting their parents' hand me down car, whatever it is, no choice in the matter

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@benroyce @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
Oh and 100% excellent point about needing a good way to recommend people to follow. In fact, I got a panel recently recommending some people to follow that looked a bit random, but I ended up following almost all of them who looked real because I can always unfollow if I don't like what they're posting (which hasn't happened so far).

Even if you match people semi-randomly, a little serendipity can be good. Better than no friends to connect with.

in reply to jhamby

@jhamby @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
that's the next step

people complain that mastodon is a "ghost town" because they are used to just showing up and getting fed by an algorithm

so their initial home page should just be the explore page, and after they follow a number of accounts, they get switched to the regular home view of their follows

or some other method, such as hashtag selection

the point is, they can't be dumped to an empty home feed because then they just leave

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
This is a real opportunity to leap ahead because from what I've seen of the new X user experience, you can select your interests, but what you end up getting in any case is a bunch of MAGA propaganda and hate speech, and a lot of Elon Musk.

X could choose not to suck, but the man who owns the company is both narcissistic and averse to any criticism, so this is how it's going to be and everyone knows it.

Bluesky will have the celebrities, for now.

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@tuban_muzuru @benroyce @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
All I can say is that so far I haven't had to unfollow anyone because they were posting either too much or stuff I found completely off the wall. Quite the opposite: I get a variety of interesting varied nuggets of info, which is what I used Twitter for before.

I've muted some accounts posting spam that I would've reported but the report button didn't have an option for that.

in reply to tuban_muzuru

@tuban_muzuru @jhamby @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
let it flow

open your mind, and dump it out into the endless ceaseless streams of social media

why?

why not

do it for your pleasure

that's what i do

in reply to jhamby

@benroyce @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
So I've had a theory about Mastodon that I think is true but manageable. If you are a celebrity of any magnitude, famous or infamous, or maybe you just like to cause a lot of controversy, or inadvertently are the target of it, you might get a really bad experience.

As a cishet white man, I'm not getting creepy DMs here from anyone. If my profile photo were different, I could be getting all sorts of unwanted attention, although not violating TOS.

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@benroyce @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
My understanding is that a strength of (the old) Twitter was that if you are the sort of person to have 1M+ followers, you don't have a terrible experience because there are ML filters that strip out the obvious harassment and you get VIP treatment from the admins if you do have to report anyone or anything.

Maybe everyone will be chill all the time and not cause trouble. The pool of possible stalkers / troublemakers is scattered across servers.

in reply to jhamby

@jhamby @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
there has to be very concrete technical user safety improvements in the fediverse that a lot of people: women, trans people, black people, etc, have been demanding for a long time and mastodon has been slow to act on. i believe they are trying to address that now

any sort of harassment, that even you and i get, but nowhere near the degree of the targeted bigotry that others get, needs to be nuked from orbit with technical fixes and better mod tools

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@benroyce @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
I'd like to first of all get some examples with names redacted, or hypothetical examples, of unsafe experiences people are having based on race, sex and gender, or any other characteristic that people like me don't see first-hand.

Like here's an example of someone having a bad time because they're Black, Jewish, Muslim, trans, and so on. Then the flowchart for all those cases is probably going to go to the same queue for some 24/7 staff to handle.

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@jhamby @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
i favor even harder changes. things unlike twitter

like giving users the ability to delete replies they receive

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
That makes perfect sense. Again, YouTube seems fairly successful with their strategy of letting curators curate their little (or big) patches of content.

For some types of replies, it may make more sense to delete and not block the offender. Things that you think are off-topic.

in reply to jhamby

@jhamby @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
well yeah, the focus would be to cut down on harassment. but there's no reason someone else might delete even harmless jokes, trying to keep things on topic

others won't care at all, and even let toxic troll comments stand (that a mod might address)

to each their own. people should be able to weed replies to their comments, if they want, as softly or as harshly as they desire

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce @jhamby @90sScriptKiddiw
Being able to delete a comment is a feature that Facebook has, which is an example of the kind of features that while probably not too often used, make it feel more like you "own" your posts, rather than them going out into the ether. This is on top of the visibility controls they offer. It makes it less of a town square and more of a personal publishing platform.
in reply to Mizzi

that's the way it should be

there is no "town square" with endless harassment

delete the harassers, then you get a town square

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@benroyce @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
I don't think YouTube's way of handling offenders, with second and third chances and then suspension is a bad way of doing things, except for the category of offenses that would warrant a banning on first offense.

I suspect a lot of complaints Meta gets about "censorship" really are about AI foolishly missing the point and/or context that a human moderator would have no trouble discerning.

The mega-social-media companies don't have a human touch.

in reply to jhamby

@jhamby @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi
for them moderation is a cost center. as a capitalist entity their goal is to reduce cost. so their moderation will never be human or humane
in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce
And keep on mind that there are thousands of moderators that currently moderate Facebook groups, providing free labor to billionaire companies. We have an extremely well moderated neighborhood group on FB, with thousands of members and 4 moderators. Would love to get them on the Fediverse...

@90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi @kissane

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce The strength of the fediverse is it is a network of small communities. Throw all the money you want at the problem of moderation, Facebook did, you can see how that went. Past a certain size of community, there is no moderating it. No keeping the bad actors out or meaningfully limiting their bad activities. I'm not disputing we should be trying to grow, I'm saying that if you siphon off Facebook's users at scale into a fediverse instance you're just recreating the same community of people, and they're going to exhibit the same behaviors. What's the point of the fediverse at all if we're just going to recreate the same problems of corporate social media? Can't we do better?
in reply to 90s Script Kiddie

@90sScriptKiddiw

i disagree re facebook and moderation

a capitalist entity is all about maximizing profit by minimizing cost

moderation is a cost

therefore, it's easier to say "well, freezepeach" (as in, it's easier to let bigots run free: less moderation tasks)

then they notice outrageous content drives engagement (since they make money serving ads, more engagement, by any means necessary, is fine)

mastodon moderation is human

they need more tools but it will never be like facebook

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in reply to 90s Script Kiddie

@90sScriptKiddiw

reddit has tons of community moderators

even facebook groups has volunteer moderators

what i am saying, as in my previous comment, is that it is my belief you are depicting the problem of moderation as more difficult than it is

it *is* difficult

and mastodon needs more mature moderation tools

but again, it just is not as bad as you depict, i believe

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce If your example of a healthily moderated community is reddit we don't have a common frame of reference and there is no point in having a conversation. We simply want different things from our communities. Best wishes to you.
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in reply to 90s Script Kiddie

@90sScriptKiddiw

reddit is gigantic and it is *functional* is my point

not perfect

i am well aware of reddit mod problems

there will always be mod problems

mastodon has a huge heap of mod problems

you're looking for perfect. you won't ever find it. as long as enough people are happy enough, that is all you could ever hope for and it will work

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

finally, you want niche

which is fine. i respect that

so you may create your niche. what we're talking about here doesn't effect your desires because we're not in a corporate board room where we all have to agree before we act

it's decentralized

so just do whatever you want. do your own thing. this entire discussion does not impinge on your desires, so there is no need for it to bother you

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in reply to 90s Script Kiddie

@90sScriptKiddiw

there's nothing wrong with your goal, and nobody wants growth for growth's sake. in fact, i don't see a single objectionable thing in what you said, and am quite mystified why you think anything anyone is saying here is in contrast to what you're enunciating

the point is growth *in* the mastodon ethos with making onboarding easier

nobody at all thinks crappy moderation is ok

nobody at all wants giant crappy servers

so i don't think your fears are warranted

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

"I want instances to be niche"

if by niche you mean 1 million people in a niche, across a number of servers, like gaming or fandoms, then we are in agreement

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in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce Maybe we do agree! Text isn't always the best way to talk things through. I read "remove server choice from the equation and make it easier to join" to me that means "fewer, bigger servers, ignore fediverse culture, corporate social media culture is fine"

Let's take the example of gamers, one of the classically toxic communities! I would say, break it down. My city has a population of 4.3 million, and a handful of boroughs with a handful of neighborhoods in each. If each neighborhood had its own gaming instance, that's the kind of size I'd be aiming for maybe. A few thousand people per server if they were on the large side, let's say. Not too big to moderate with a small team. Not too big to fediblock. Not so big that you need a multi-gigabit pipe and a rack full of servers to run it. Village size instances.

in reply to 90s Script Kiddie

@90sScriptKiddiw

agreed 100%

the way i see an onboarding process would be

servers sign up to accept noobs. they have to conform to moderation standards, have the server hardware capacity (we can handle 1,000 more accts), etc

then people get assigned to a server

at random? maybe

maybe the noob answers "where are you from" (geographical location matters)

and "what are you interested in" (maybe they pick 3 hashtags)

but the number of questions should be brief

then they get auto-assigned

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce That seems pretty reasonable to me. I think you should still be able to join whatever server you like (I joined this one because a friend of mine was on it, and I think that's valuable, if people can join the same community as their friends) but I'm certainly not against creating a portal that eases the process of choosing, and if it had a sort of regional load balancing to try and keep any one server from getting too big, so much the better!
in reply to 90s Script Kiddie

@90sScriptKiddiw

i have one misgiving:

this onboarding process would be a form of centralization

that's a big deal

it would have to be responsibly run by a nonprofit and be utterly transparent

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce If I may, you might be able to distribute this as well. Rather than centralize it, have it be the default experience when you register on any individual mastodon instance. (Putting aside for now other activitypub clients) This is where I get less sure of myself because while I have strong opinions on what nakes a good community, I don't know much about decentralized networking concepts. I feel there's probably a good way to distribute and manage a list of servers and their regions and topics in a decentralized way (torrents? ipfs? something else?) but I don't have much experience in that area. Being something of an anarchist, I have a bias and prefer doing things in a more ad-hoc or informal way. I don't like committees.
I think that the more people you have involved in making a decision, the worse that decision tends to be, so I am somewhat against the idea of any centralized entity having too much power or responsibility.
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in reply to 90s Script Kiddie

@90sScriptKiddiw

i agree

but the problem is simple:

noobs will want to "join the fediverse"

what does that mean to them?

a site they go to

boom, right there, you have a gateway. a centralization

so it's a weakness, and an insurmountable weakness

it doesn't mean people can't or won't get to the fediverse other ways, but for the sake of this topic, it is a centralization weakness that has to be carefully managed

i just can't see a way around it (scoped to this specific topic of ours)

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce I don't know that it's insurmountable. This is where my "slow growth" ideas come into play. If you Google "join the fediverse" there is a website called jointhefediverse.net that more or less just points you to mastodon.social although it does explain that there are other servers. Maybe, rather than having a central website we send people to, a grassroots community effort could be convened. Have a bunch of instances print up QR code stickers of their URLs (and maybe some little text explaining what that server is about) and have their users paste them up around their communities. Stick printed flyers in the free community newspaper. Leave a stack of flyers at the local library or community centre, put them in mall bathrooms - that sort of thing. Grow it, but do it slowly. Fungal marketing instead of viral marketing.
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in reply to catagent101

@catagent101 @themizzi

how about this

user is faced with 3 buttons:

1. just join

2. pick a region ("rio de janeiro" or "brazil")

3. join by hashtag (# gaming, or # rpg)

on the backend, servers, qualified for moderation and other standards like software version, etc, indicate how many slots they can fill by hardware capabilities and desire for new accts

acct is created but never even mentions the idea of a "server", instead using the term "community":

mastodon.social/@manager@socia…

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

I don't think this is a good idea because as I recall one of the things people found confusing about Mastodon is the whole region instance, topic instance thing so you can't just put it on a button like that, you have to explain it first.
in reply to catagent101

@catagent101 @themizzi

they can just be assigned. just enter username, password, and hit a button (#1)

or, they can free text field indicate a region, or a topic hashtag (#2 or #3). but if you think it doesn't work then we are left with #1

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

Like to elaborate on that a bit, part of the problem as I've seen people say is that, you know, people tend to have multiple interests and identities, and it isn't clear if you want both what you should pick, since it's never explained what the effect of this choice is. Similarly, regional servers don't have any kind of unifying scale so if you live in Sydney, Australia it isn't clear whether you should choose the Sydney server or the Australia server.

It also doesn't seem to be clear to people how exactly these servers fit into the concept of a Twitter clone, I guess because the way it's done sorta implies a chatroom or Discord server.

On the subject of a button with just "Join" on it hmm... I think people would still expect a cumbersome process because of Mastodon's current reputation so it needs something to make it clear this is the streamlined process (as opposed to the server directory which is unstreamlined process).

in reply to catagent101

@catagent101 @themizzi

yeah, but my thinking is to just get them in

uname pword go

and then let the intricacies dawn on them as time goes on

a "less is more" approach taken to an extreme. because any little extraneous detail confuses people and puts them off

they don't want to think about it. it has to be as easy or easier than twitter et al or boom: we instantly lose new sign ups

the refinement to location/ interest... maybe give them uname pword go + refine (if they choose)

in reply to Mizzi

@themizzi @NaClKnight I don’t know. I kinda wish the web had stayed niche. (I don’t, but I do).
The tech is kinda irrelevant; the reality is that once a thing is seen as useful and commercially viable to become involved with - it gets taken over, and de-facto centralised.

The web was “distributed” by design. It’s mostly dead in that regard now. Same with email; don’t want to play by Google rules? You won’t get all your mail. Etc. Even browsers are dying.

in reply to Matt Wilcox

@mattwilcox @benroyce @catagent101 @manager @dansup

What an amazing thread to wake up to! Thank you all for your insights. I do have a question. Most people in my communities use either FB or Insta, they do not use Twitter. I personally never got into Twitter as a result. I see @dansup building something like Instagram. I am a member of a couple of very active Groups on FB. Many friends use Stories and Reels. What do you think about these features being brought to the fediverse?

in reply to Mizzi

@mattwilcox @benroyce @catagent101 @manager @dansup

I want to share a couple of personal viewpoints that may be contrary to the popular view here:

* I'm fine with algos if they’re open source and auditable. The goals should mix high quality content with engaging content.

* Moderation should curb extremes, but platform-wide rules can be a slippery slope. I’d rather educate than eliminate.

"Moderation" on Facebook and Twitter is not really moderation. It's at the whims of the CEO.

in reply to Mizzi

@themizzi @mattwilcox @catagent101 @manager @dansup

yeah. people should be able to pick from open source algorithms. anyone can write them

moderation can be too trigger happy. what we need are time outs. someone who engages in open bigotry should be iced forever. someone who just speaks rudely should get a week off

moderation at capitalist companies is a cost center. meaning it's cheaper for them to say "freezepeach" and let bigotry stand. just because it's cheaper

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce @themizzi @catagent101 @manager @dansup Moderation tools don’t need to be top-down. Give users better moderation tools. Give us lists we can subscribe to. Give us abilities to disallow replies to certain posts. Give us criteria settings for stuff. (1/2)
in reply to Matt Wilcox

LISTEN to years worth of Black voices and complaints from people with 10k’s followers who’ve already explored what’s needed in great detail, many times. Those have been ignored for far too long. (2/2)
in reply to Erin Kissane

that's the nice thing about the Fediverse

Federation means that you can be broad and niche at the same time: choose your server to choose your network map

Or as I think of it, to join Fedi is to choose the problems of Anarchy rather than the problems of Authority. Which opens up many different questions, some causing difficulties, others its strengths

And I think a lot of ppl, for a lot of reasons, would find that option appealing rn...

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in reply to Erin Kissane

I love this take. There are things I get out of Mastodon that are good, but the broader appeal & better affordances on Bluesky have made it massively more useful and interesting. Alternative social spaces online need to be far more pragmatic about things like looking good, being usable (not just accessible), and other things that attract users that code nerds often think of as frills or frivolous or whatever.
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Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@dansup @themizzi
Dan is there any possibility you could clone yourself x5 for the sake of the fediverse? 🤭

Nothing but awe Dan for what you're doing!

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tuban_muzuru

@dansup @benroyce @themizzi
This opinion is worth exactly what you're paying for it - nothing - but I wouldn't be in a hurry to Simplify things. You've made something that's working pretty well, nothing that can't be improved, first, with proper documentation.

I'm not saying - don't do it - I'm saying it might be a bit early

in reply to Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@benroyce @dansup @themizzi
I can envision a process which can ping an enumeration of servers - shortest ping time is your default choice. Add a few wrinkles, your server is determined for you
in reply to Erin Kissane

@Erin Kissane I'm not even sure what you're talking about. Do you mean that they are allowing such posts or that they are posting them. Also, people could experience attrocities regardless of what platform on the Internet they use, so that doesn't make sense to me either. If you're saying, though, that we should all take responsibility for what is going on, quite honestly, I must disagree. If I and those whom I love an care about are safe, I'm not getting involved in the problems of the world.
in reply to Georgiana Brummell

@dandylover1 I can try to translate simply: Meta algorithmically accelerates genocidal messages posted by users. They used to *try* to avoid it. Now they aren't even trying. What happens online affects the offline world, so just staying off any given platform doesn't mean you won't be affected.

So making alt networks with broad appeal is necessary, so we can reduce the social damage wrought by the most harmful networks.

And yeah, I do think we should care what happens to other people.

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Ben Royce 🇺🇦

@luca @themizzi don't worry about rednote downloaders, they're just edgelords

more people will join the fediverse when joining and diving in is made super easy

in reply to Erin Kissane

and the more people we get off the hate-mongering websites, the less hate we will see on our streets and in our political decisions, making it safer for everyone.
in reply to Erin Kissane

Honestly I don't see enough people caring about what you're discussing in order to move to a model alternative in the next 10 years.

People are allowed want their comfort food but the revolution will not be comfortable.

There's tons of people on here who aren't the archetypal fedizen and they struggled through because they cared enough.

How many of the rest will fund a server or volunteer to mod? What if we get more people than are willing or able to keep the lights on for them?

in reply to Davey

we could win back some people who are willing to participate a little, and can embrace a little weirdness for something that suits their ethics.

The vast majority just aren't thinking about this. The vast majority of past Twitter users are *still there*.

We've a lot to fix over here, certainly. To a certain extent though, we just have to get our shit together as much as possible and be here for someone when they care enough to try.