@Brian S. @Friendica Support @Tobias
Rolling these together rather than replying separately saying the same thing 😄

1. TBH, the main thing is just knowing the score – there's a load of encrypted messengers available. There'll hopefully come a point where Frendica is enough of how I interact with people that it'd be lovely to not need another thing for Definitely Private chat. But that's a good long way away!

2. So where do I find the connector; how do I make use of it? I did assume Googling, found a bunch of mentions of it, but no links, how to use/connect, whether the instance admin has to have set it up, etc.

3. My followed content scope has defaulted to "Conversations my follows started or commented on", and I've not (yet) changed that.