(Please note. Due to screen reader accessibility problems on Friendica, I have mostly switched to Akkoma. I can now be found here, though I may occasionally still post to Friendica.
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Hello. Georgiana Brummell is not my legal name, but it is what I prefer to be called. I chose it in honour of Beau Brummell. I live in New Jersey and am forty-one years old. Some of my interests include studying dandyism, nineteenth-century grammar, Upper Received Pronunciation, British history, and the Regency. I like coffee, tea, wine, nasal snuff, cooking, hot baths, reading British literature, nature and historical documentaries, old BBC radio shows, gardening, hot weather, and playing cards and dice. I also love cats. In classical music, I enjoy Baroque through a bit of early Romantic, while in popular, I usually prefer 1950's through 1970's. I love theatre (especially English and Viennese operettas, Edwardian musical comedies), and some Regency/Georgian plays. I am starting to learn about opera, with my main focus being singers from the 1940's and earlier, due to the change in singing style that began roughly in the 1950's. I prefer antique menswear and accessories. It's my dream to either buy a genuine Edwardian suit or have one commissioned. I love wit, wordplay, and dry humour without vulgarity. My parents are lesbians, and I am a gay rights supporter. I have been totally blind since I was two months old, due to Retinopathy of Prematurity. I am happily childfree and am not religious. My main goal in life is simply to enjoy it, and have fun learning new things along the way. I am also single and searching. If you are or know a genuine dandy, or at least, a single, childfree, intelligent, well-dressed man, preferably over sixty, please tell him about me.
Please note. I don't write about American politics, race, anticapitalism or world affairs (wars, poverty, oppression, etc.), and will not add those who do, as I don't want it filling my timelines. While I am interested in technology to an extent (particularly website accessibility), I am not a programmer or gamer, do not use Linux,and don't care what social network you use. I tend to get along better with people much older than I, but I will accept friends twenty-one and over. I have no understanding of chronic illness, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, loneliness, etc. so if you need help with that, I'm not the one to ask. I enjoy hearing about cats, cooking or gardening adventures, animals and nature, antiques, and interesting facts and life stories.
You can also find me on Dreamwidth. Anyone can read or comment, whether or not he is a member.
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Fedi.Tips
in reply to Mark Meisner ๐ • • •That's really good, nice! ๐ Very interesting to emphasise how to make Mastodon's user experience more Facebook-like, that could help more new people come here ๐
One thing: some servers have more than 500 characters (I've listed a few good ones at fedi.garden/tag/larger-post-siโฆ but there are lots more.) ...but it's your call if this adds confusion or complexity.
Also you might want to copy paste the text into the description of the image? That will get you a lot more boosts on here ๐
Larger Post Size | Fedi.Garden
fedi.gardenGeorgiana Brummell likes this.
Mark Meisner ๐
in reply to Mark Meisner ๐ • • •Fedi.Tips
in reply to Mark Meisner ๐ • • •Okay, brilliant! I've just boosted it, hopefully other people find it useful too ๐
A lot of people are looking for ways to get their friends off Facebook, so it's great to see guides like this.
Marcel de Jong ๐
in reply to Mark Meisner ๐ • • •Fedi.Tips
in reply to Marcel de Jong ๐ • • •@madjo
It definitely does have alt text, you can check on the original page for the post:
mastodon.social/@markmeisner/1โฆ
This was added to the post later, perhaps the edit hasn't federated to your server yet?
Mark Meisner ๐
2025-02-03 00:52:37
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in reply to Mark Meisner ๐ • • •Cฤtฤ ๐ท๐ด๐บ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ฉ๐ช๐บ
in reply to Mark Meisner ๐ • • •@Mark Meisner 🌎 @Fedi.Tips There's a lot to get used to if going from Facebook to Mastodon. There are lots of missing features (compared to Facebook) and if you're on a server that has the default 500 characters limit, then bad luck!
If not, it could be more bearable, but:
- They would still have to cope with the fact that there is no threaded view in the comments of a post. Every comment is linear, so you don't know who replied who. Unless...
- People just tag each other in order to be notified by a response. This is mandatory. If you don't, the people before you won't be notified.
- They would still have to cope with the fact that longer posts are threaded and can be sometimes difficult to read through
- There's no way to create events and groups (and no way to attend these events).
- There's no gran
... Show more...@Mark Meisner ๐ @Fedi.Tips There's a lot to get used to if going from Facebook to Mastodon. There are lots of missing features (compared to Facebook) and if you're on a server that has the default 500 characters limit, then bad luck!
If not, it could be more bearable, but:
If these aspects are important for those people, consider also recommending Friendica (and possibly Diaspora too). The Fediverse is really lacking when it comes to Facebook alternatives. Nearly all of them seem to have a learning curve even bigger than Mastodon itself (which, fwiw, has been worked on in the past years). Friendica seems to be the most accessible though, among the ActivityPub platforms. There are two great apps for Android (Relatica and Raccoon - with the former also being worked on to support iOS too). Plus there are countless user created guides on how to use Friendica. I tried to gather them all in this megathread, so if you need to give a guide to someone, pick any of the ones I linked there. ๐
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2025-01-11 17:50:24
Fedi.Tips
in reply to Cฤtฤ ๐ท๐ด๐บ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ฉ๐ช๐บ • • •I wouldn't recommend Diaspora at the moment as it has very few active users (just a few thousand), it cannot connect to Mastodon, Pixelfed etc, and Diaspora's development seems to have slowed to a crawl. Hopefully it gets back to its glory days at some point, but it's currently not a good place for new people to start on IMHO.
Friendica is a much better option, it reaches almost all of the Fediverse, but it still lacks some things such as an abuse reporting tool.
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in reply to Fedi.Tips • • •Fedi.Tips
in reply to Cฤtฤ ๐ท๐ด๐บ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ฉ๐ช๐บ • • •Yeah, Friendica development is much more active ๐
Shantell Powell
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Fedi.Tips
in reply to Shantell Powell • • •@Shanmonster
There is a platform on here specifically for replacing Facebook Events called Mobilizon, more info at fedi.tips/mobilizon-event-orgaโฆ
Facebook Groups is trickier, there's not a direct replacement yet. Some Fediverse platforms like NodeBB seem to be looking at group privacy but they're not ready yet.
Mobilizon: Event organisation and discovery | Fedi.Tips โ An Unofficial Guide to Mastodon and the Fediverse
fedi.tipsShantell Powell
in reply to Fedi.Tips • • •Alex Chapman
in reply to Mark Meisner ๐ • • •Fedi.Tips
in reply to Alex Chapman • • •Alex Chapman
in reply to Fedi.Tips • • •Mark Meisner ๐
in reply to Alex Chapman • • •The post does provide a link to the full text of the blog post ๐
Fedi.Tips
Unknown parent • • •@crcordray
There is, but Friendica is lacking some things such as a moderation system:
github.com/friendica/friendicaโฆ
Feature Request: implement Moderation system ยท Issue #8724 ยท friendica/friendica
GitHubKen Walker
in reply to Mark Meisner ๐ • • •Rin ๐ (Mari ๐) // &
in reply to Mark Meisner ๐ • • •Mark Meisner ๐
in reply to Rin ๐ (Mari ๐) // & • • •@rinmari Apparently there is a Groups feature on Mastodon. Here is yet another great tip from @FediTips
fedi.tips/how-to-use-groups-onโฆ
As for events, see this tip.
fedi.tips/mobilizon-event-orgaโฆ
How to use groups on Mastodon and the Fediverse | Fedi.Tips โ An Unofficial Guide to Mastodon and the Fediverse
fedi.tipsRin ๐ (Mari ๐) // &
in reply to Mark Meisner ๐ • • •Fedi.Tips
in reply to Rin ๐ (Mari ๐) // & • • •@rinmari
Just to clarify, the Groups feature in that particular guide is basically a "super hashtag", it lets people on different servers more easily participate in discussions with accounts that their server hasn't noticed yet.
It's similar to the email discussion lists of the 1990s/2000s.
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kasicak
in reply to Mark Meisner ๐ • • •A paragraph on Facebook shares and likes vs. Mastodon boosts and favourites would be useful too! I am in a a target group for this guide (never used Twitter, only Facebook and Instagram) and this is one of the differences that still bother me after a few months of using Mastodon.
Also, how to discover interesting accounts, how to look for specific topics and how hashtags work (or don't work...) on fedi. (When I search for a tag that is extremely popular on Instagram, here almost nothing appears - WHY? This is one of the most annoying things for me ๐).
I can see why you want to keep it extremely short and simple though.
@FediTips
Fedi.Tips
in reply to kasicak • • •@kasica
I've tried to do a more comprehensive site all about Mastodon covering the topics you mention at:
โก๏ธ fedi.tips
I think Mark is just trying to do a really simple, quick-to-read explanation aimed at a very specific audience.
Mark Meisner ๐
in reply to Fedi.Tips • • •@kasica
Everyone on Mastodon should follow Fedi.Tips. So helpful. Thank you!
kasicak
in reply to Fedi.Tips • • •I totally get it! I am easily overwhelmed too. I keep Fedi Tips open all the time so itโs always at hand ๐ Thank you for creating it!
@markmeisner
Fedi.Tips
in reply to kasicak • • •@kasica
Aww... thank you for the kind words! ๐ Very happy if you find it useful!
Mark Meisner ๐
Unknown parent • • •Marshall Mayer
in reply to Mark Meisner ๐ • • •As a FB Refugee, I found an interesting post by @atomicpoet that summarized my frustration with Mastodon: atomicpoet.org/objects/d7ac885…. Especially, the inserted clip.
Too bad Mastodon may miss its moment because much of what it is doing (UX excepted) is right.
Chris Trottier
As a FB Refugee, I found an interesting post by @atomicpoet that summarized my frustration with Mastodon: atomicpoet.org/objects/d7ac885โฆ. Especially, the inserted clip.
Too bad Mastodon may miss its moment because much of what it is doing (UX excepted) is right.
Chris Trottier
2025-02-04 18:52:04
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Fedi.Tips
in reply to Marshall Mayer • • •Bluesky is a centralised network, just like Twitter or Facebook.
It is very very very easy to have discovery systems on a centralised network, but that centralisation also means the network can be bought out at any moment.
If Musk wanted to buy Bluesky there is nothing to stop him.
If Musk wanted to buy Mastodon, that would be quite tricky as it is spread out on thousands of independently owned servers most of which hate him.
Fedi.Tips
in reply to Fedi.Tips • • •@AuthenticPhoto @atomicpoet
Also, Bluesky has something like 100 times more funding than Mastodon, and that funding comes from Bluesky selling itself to VC investors.
Those VC investors aren't charities, they are buying the network with an expectation of massive profits, which will have to happen through exploitation of users ("enshittification").
Mastodon hasn't sold itself to anyone (and cannot due to its structure), so it isn't on a path to exploit users.
Fedi.Tips
in reply to Fedi.Tips • • •You cannot have your cake and eat it. Centralisation and VC money comes at a horrible long term cost.
If you want a network resistant to Musk-type takeovers, Bluesky isn't it.
The only network which cannot be easily bought out is the Fediverse (which Mastodon is part of). This is the place to be if you want a different kind of future.
I know not everyone cares who owns their networks, but if that's the case why bother leaving Twitter or Facebook?
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Mark Meisner ๐
Unknown parent • • •A good suggestion. I haven't tried Friendica yet. I looked at it and it seems that hardly anyone is using it. The largest server (friendica.world) had only around 1400 users. Would be great if it took off.