You have to share the calendar in the desktop UI. (Make it editable) Your wife has to accept it, IIRC. And vice versa. Then the other's calendar appears in DAVx5.
if you open the sharing details of anything in Nextcloud (so on calendars), there will be (95% of the time) a field which asks for user- or group names, which whom you want to share this calendar.
As long as your accounts are on the same instance (which I assume) just type the username of the other person there and select them.
Then in their calendar your shared calendar should be visible as "shared by ...
If your instance is federated, you can also share stuff with accounts/groups on other federated instances, with sth like <username>@instance.tld or so.
I haven't seen this used in practice but it's actually a very powerful feature which I would like to test in the future
und da müssen wir angesichts der Lage auch sagen: gut das wir noch eine Rüstungsindustrie haben. War wohl nix mit dem ewigen Frieden dank Wohlstand. Hätten wir die Oligarchen systematisch aufgebrochen, die superreichen besteuert und die Löhne sich gut entwickeln lassen, wäre es vielleicht nicht so gekommen
Es geht nicht darum, ob man Ab- oder Aufrüstung will bzw. geil findet.
Es geht darum, die Ukraine durch entsprechend groß ausfallenden Lieferungen in die Lage zu versetzen, eine illegale Invasion abzuwehren. Staatliche Souveränität und so.
This picture is going viral. From what I can tell it's a mix of street art by My Stencil and a pasted image. The kid with the globe is street art from Lyon, France and the other one is some Nazi.
The ALT transcribed text is wrong. On the wall it's not written "Demain j'ai sans jardin"... but "Demain je serai grand"... meaning tomorrow I'll be a grown-up.
@ManyRoads #alttext4you Little fascist Lauren Boebert doing the fascist salute with her left hand on her heart and a sign "END MIGRANT CRIMES" partially visible behind her.
#AltforYou The famous X character (stylised as 𝕩) from the site formerly known as Twitter. The northeastern line functions as an arm that gives the Nazi salute.
I was thinking earlier of doing a similar thing with the T in the Tesla logo, but this is a far more natural approach and better than I could’ve done anyway, so bravo.
@MissGayle You under estimate the power of the men who are unable to keep their pants on... Willing agreeable targets are something those guys 'relish'. Can't do away with them now, can we???
@ManyRoads Seeing as women have been assaulted, seduced, and used by men who don't give a rats rear end about them since the beginning of time, regardless of the style of clothes then in fashion, I doubt it will make that much difference. Just saying.
Thanks for sharing his account! As he seems to be posting this message on X, it won't take long until we find him active here again right? That's how non-censorship works in practice, like with @elonjet , I believe.
I wonder how Elonjet will change now by the way. Will he travel with military helicopters soon, who might be exempt from the obligation to publish something?
@AlexanderVI I hate my brain because this reply made me lol for real because I thought you were joking. But maybe you aren’t and I don’t know. FML At least I got a laugh, even if you didn’t mean for it to be that way.
After Elon Musk was accused of giving a fascist salute at an event celebrating the inauguration of US President Donald Trump, we look at the rules around the gesture in Germany.
Der Beschlussentwurf zur Einleitung des AfD-Verbotsverfahrens wurde nun endlich auf die Tagesordnung des Bundestags gesetzt. Wir fordern alle demokratischen Parteien auf, ihn zu unterstützen und dem Bundesverfassungsgericht endlich die Prüfung zu ermöglichen.
Unsere ganze Pressemitteilung mit weiteren Zitaten von Sea-Watch, Polylux und dem BMJ*B gibt es hier 👇
Termin und Tagesordnung jeder Sitzung des Bundestages werden im Ältestenrat vereinbart. Die Tagesordnung wird den Mitgliedern des Bundestages, dem Bundesrat und der Bundesregierung...
In the United States, the Center for Reproductive Rights litigates in federal and state courts and advocates for laws and policies to ensure reproductive rights and health services are available across the country.
Snapshot on wayback machine means, that they did the last snapshop at that time. It does not mean, that if no snapshot after that date is shown, the website was down.
@expertenkommision_cyberunfall Yes but that site has been crawled almost every single day sometimes with a two day gap. That's why I said it looks like I didn't say it was
@snow @expertenkommision_cyberunfall Shoutout to all the Archive Team volunteers who run VMs to do that work. I have four contributing to their projects.
Yes, they are going to go all out to punish women and the LGBTG+ community etc. What a horror show. And to think thousands voted for that - and are now going to find out what it really means.
In fairness, at noon on day of innauguratiuon, the white house web site is archived and a totally new one is created which does not inherit any of the pages or data from the old. The new admin has gone out of its way to destroy all they could of the Biden era, so not surprising they didn't copy anything from his web site.
Español We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defence, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our P…
@jfmezei @Galley @designedbymichael I don’t know about this. In the first Trump administration I remember they had a bunch of Obama Administration site content up for a while.
@PttP Around half of Trump's voters must have been women. And many of them mothers of daughters. These are the things that leave us stunned. Let's not fool ourselves. The time of the idiots began more than 15 years ago. Enabled by social media, which gave each and every moron the opportunity to spread any rubbish whatsoever. But we hear that this must not be confused with free speech. Well, good luck with that.
@NatureMC @Galley 2 ans ? Je me souviens pas avoir passé autant de temps dessus 😂
Perso je crois que j'ai vu ça en 4e, et on l'a revu en première. Mais dans l'ensemble autant on a pas mal parlé de la révolution autant Louis XIV est in peu passé à la trappe...
@thual OMG, it's terribly embarrassing! 😳 I'm living in France and we had this history TWO years at school. 🤣 Thank you so much! 👍 I suppose that was a Freudian slip, I was so enamoured with the idea of revolution ... 😎 Thanks!
Louis XIV was the "sun king", the one who had a really long reign and made France an important country (one of the most absolutist french kings, also)
The one who lost his head was Louis XVI. This one was way more moderate, and had accepted to give way more power to te people. His death was more a symbol than a protection of democracy - that did not really exist at the time.
Tjat's just for precision, that doesn't change the meaning of your words 😀
Wer Populisten wählt, tut das in den allermeisten Fällen, weil es ihnen darum geht, irgendwen auszuschließen und bei der Gruppe derer dazuzugehören, die "endlich mal das Sagen" haben. Wir wissen natürlich alle, dass das ein Trick ist: Populismus verspricht einen Klassenaufstieg, in Wahrheit hält sie das Klassensystem aber aufrecht.
Wenn die Populisten erst mal "das Sagen haben", lassen sie daher ihre Wähler*innen als erstes fallen und machen vor ihnen die Tür zu, nicht etwas hinter ihnen.
Wie das aussieht, sieht man als gar nicht mal so metaphorische Metapher grade in den USA. Dort sind jede Menge MAGA-Fans zur Inauguration gekommen, um mit ihrem Führer zu feiern. Die stehen aber jetzt vor Zäunen und Absperrungen, Denn Trump und seine Klasse feiern "drinnen". Seine Wähler bleiben draußen.
Und das ist das, was immer passiert. Wenn man in der Schule Orwells "Animal Farm" gelesen hat und sich an die Szene erinnert, wenn die Tiere glauben, gewonnen zu haben, aber dann...
Honestly, this is the worst open letter I've ever read. It lacks maturity and professionalism. It's full of snarky comments and a tone that doesn't encourage an adult conversation. He had the chance to show Meta is the one acting like a child, but instead he made himself sound like one. And that's sad.
Who gives a flying f what Meta think? 🙂 Do you think a polite letter was going to elicit some kind of kindly helpful response from Musk Mini-Me (sorry that was childish, I mean Mr Zuckerberg)?
@hirad and it's hypocritical. If you're going to be snarkily insulting, you can't also brownnose your target. (Talking about the lie that Zuckerberg started fb to "connect people".)
@masteralf @hirad One key point to keep in mind is that Meta software is really, really bad. Links are blocked basically at random, because they use the misnamed "AI" and this is really naive pattern matchers and random number generators. People go around attributing purpose to the actions of Meta's algorithms when really they ought to know better.
Anyway, Mark Zuckerberg is a big dope who could not possibly understand an open letter and so it looks silly even to address one.
@masteralf @hirad Aside: I sense in here the myth of "enshittification", which is the notion that Zuckerberg provided something idealistic and then "enshittified" it. This myth depends on the assumption that Zuckerberg always intended to give away something out of the pureness of his heart, rather than to make money.
He simply did what you are supposed to do as a profit-making business: get people deeply interested, and THEN charge them a profitable amount for it.
@chemoelectric @masteralf @hirad You misunderstand the concept of "enshittification". It doesn't presuppose an initial idealism. Obviously the intent has always been to make money but, initially, you did that by making something that people *liked*, that was fun to use, etc.
@gpilz @masteralf @hirad AND THAT YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO PAY EXTRA FOR to keep that enjoyment. And that didn't wall itself off so it could make money off of people. Etc.
It's like if someone handed out a gadget on the street and gave free access, then made it so you had to trek to a store, pay money, and subscribe to the service. A lot of people would stop enjoying it. So what? THE COMPANY IS NOT A CHARITY.
@chemoelectric @masteralf @hirad Enshittification is, among other things, about an inherent bait and switch. You grow your user base by offering one thing then, once that base large enough to make switching expensive, you change your offering to be something much shittier. It has nothing to do with charity, its about honest business practices.
this reads like somebody with maturity issues wrote it. Also at least export the thing into a pdf first, the squiggly lines and text cursor are still visible
More importantly, Zuckerberg didn’t build Facebook because he believed in anything, at least not anything good - initially the project was to rate college girls on their appearances
lovely, just … don’t forget that Zuck’s original idea was to dehumanize and objectify women. He’s never had a noble vision. And I hope PixelFed’s doors aren’t open to that.
@SallyStrange True about the origin of the app, but I really don't think it's meant as an actual compliment.
"connecting people" is what Meta employees tell themselves. Daniel is speaking to the ego of the Meta bosses, the story they tell about themselves, to their lower ranks, and to the rest of the world.
The fact that Meta blocks opportunities to connect therefore goes in the face of the story they tell themselves and to others.
@amici Not telling the truth means the letter writer didn't know the truth, or thought that the difference between "connecting people" vs "objectifying women" isn't worth mentioning. Both possibilities mean the letter writer is sexist.
@SallyStrange I'd call that a very strong character accusation. It's a valid complaint that he missed the actual origins, but I would not venture so far in characterizing a person, if it's based off a single mocking letter.
@amici nah man, you can't look at structural bigotry through the lens of personal character. If the letter writer is unaware of FB's sexist origins, that means they're not tuned into even the most basic of feminist information sources, which means they're marinating in the same background misogyny that we all are. It's easily remedied and it doesn't mean they, personally, hate women--but it's still sexism.
»Lieber Mark, Ich hoffe, es geht Ihnen gut. Mir ist heute etwas Interessantes aufgefallen - es scheint, dass Instagram Links zu meinem kleinen Open-Source-Projekt blockiert. Sie wissen schon, die, die es Menschen ermöglicht, Fotos zu teilen, ohne ihre persönlichen Daten zu sammeln oder algorithmische Feeds auf sie zu erzwingen.
Ich muss zugeben, ich fühle mich geschmeichelt. Wer hätte gedacht, dass ein kleines Team von Freiwilligen etwas aufbauen könnte, das Ihre Aufmerksamkeit auf sich ziehen würde? Wir versuchen nur, den Menschen die Wahl zu geben, wie sie ihre Erinnerungen online teilen. Keine VCs, kein Überwachungskapitalismus, nur Code und Gemeinschaft.
Weißt du noch, wann Facebook gestartet wurde? Es ging darum, Menschen zu verbinden, nicht um die Interaktionsmetriken zu maximieren. Unser Projekt mag im Vergleich zu Instagram winzig sein, aber wir bleiben dem ursprünglichen Geist der sozialen Medien treu - Menschen die Kontrolle über ihre Online-Präsenz zu geben, ohn
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»Lieber Mark, Ich hoffe, es geht Ihnen gut. Mir ist heute etwas Interessantes aufgefallen - es scheint, dass Instagram Links zu meinem kleinen Open-Source-Projekt blockiert. Sie wissen schon, die, die es Menschen ermöglicht, Fotos zu teilen, ohne ihre persönlichen Daten zu sammeln oder algorithmische Feeds auf sie zu erzwingen.
Ich muss zugeben, ich fühle mich geschmeichelt. Wer hätte gedacht, dass ein kleines Team von Freiwilligen etwas aufbauen könnte, das Ihre Aufmerksamkeit auf sich ziehen würde? Wir versuchen nur, den Menschen die Wahl zu geben, wie sie ihre Erinnerungen online teilen. Keine VCs, kein Überwachungskapitalismus, nur Code und Gemeinschaft.
Weißt du noch, wann Facebook gestartet wurde? Es ging darum, Menschen zu verbinden, nicht um die Interaktionsmetriken zu maximieren. Unser Projekt mag im Vergleich zu Instagram winzig sein, aber wir bleiben dem ursprünglichen Geist der sozialen Medien treu - Menschen die Kontrolle über ihre Online-Präsenz zu geben, ohne sie in Produkte zu verwandeln.
Du hättest uns ignorieren können. Stattdessen haben Sie uns durch das Blockieren unserer Links die beste Unterstützung gegeben, die wir uns wünschen konnten. Sie haben bestätigt, was wir die ganze Zeit gesagt haben - dass Big Tech mehr daran interessiert ist, ihre ummauerten Gärten zu schützen, als echte Innovationen zu fördern.
Jedes Mal, wenn Sie einen Link zu unserer Plattform blockieren, erinnern Sie die Leute daran, warum wir ihn überhaupt erstellt haben. Ihr Handeln sagt ihnen, dass es Alternativen gibt, die es wert sind, untersucht zu werden, die ihre Privatsphäre und Handlungsfähigkeit respektieren. Also danke, Mark. Sie haben unser kleines Projekt in ein Symbol des Widerstands gegen digitale Monopole verwandelt.«
Op 16 januari roepen we publieke organisaties op om samen de eerste stap te zetten door alternatieven te gaan gebruiken voor Big Tech sociale media platformen.
@paul_e_cooley unfortunately, intentionally or accidentally. Dan is following Elon's 'move fast and break things' mentality.
He's doing great things for fediverse visibility... but being a one man show leads to getting your ego involved or missing things (like Loops' egregious rights over-reach in its TOS).
Dan's done a lot of good... I just hope he can avoid an Icarus-style crash and burn that could undo a lot of that good. ..
I believe texts get better when we step aside for a few cycles and not let ourselves be driven by the highness of attention. Zuckerberg has never been what you describe. There is no grassroots moral origin we could jumpstart in the back of his memory. It is historically evident that Facebook, later meta has frequently chosen the unethical paths when they had choice to. There is no ancient ideal to appeal to. No renaissance can happen.
great letter! Rooting for you all the way!! A couple of years after I started NadaMoo, I got a cold call from the retired director of sales for Ben and Jerry’s. “Your product has ‘legs’” he said, “and I want to help.” No threats from lawyers followed. Because Ben and Jerry got it right: equity, sustainability and community can be the pillars of successful businesses. They were not in my niche market, but they still cared about the people in my niche market.
"connecting people"? Facebook was created to predate on women and use their data without their consent!!! it was NEVER about connecting people, it was always about misogyny, ego and money.
Been a while. I’ve mostly been posting on the Fedi, but I feel like this is a rather important topic that requires attention.
Recently @dansup has been posting a bunch about loops.video, a federated alternative to Instagram/ TikTok.
Well, Facebook started as a sexist platform for rating female college students without consent. There is nothing you can expect from such an "inventor".
I may not be an economist, but generally when they gush about innovations that selflessly want to connect people, they’re generally talking about marketing more than edenic community…no offense to the love-machine of laissez-faire of course
»You've confirmed what we've been saying all along - that big tech is more interested in protecting their walled gardens than fostering genuine innovation.«
All along? Here's what you said, last September:
»Meta approached the fediverse in the proper way They didn't acquire Mastodon Instead they worked with fedi projects big and small regarding interop Meta isn't the enemy«
»You've confirmed what we've been saying all along - that big tech is more interested in protecting their walled gardens than fostering genuine innovation.«
All along? Here's what you said, last September:
»Meta approached the fediverse in the proper way They didn't acquire Mastodon Instead they worked with fedi projects big and small regarding interop Meta isn't the enemy«
When facebook started afaik it was not about connecting people, it was about rating women. (so I highly doubt Zuck ever wanted to "make the internet better" and I wouldn't open a door to this guy under any circumstances.) That aside the open letter of course is nice.
Awesome, but the one catch here is that he probably didn't develop (with other people, not alone) Facebook for idealistic reasons. It's more likely that he wanted to get laid, and help other horny college dudes get laid. The original Facebook has been credibly accused of being a stalking app, and I find that very easy to believe. Nothing he's done has indicated to me that he actually gives a shit about users, and nothing he says has any meaning for me without evidence to back it up.
I noticed something similar a year or so ago. Any time I would share photos of my kids with family members or whatever, I would create a public share link to the album on my Nextcloud server, with an expiration date, and then share that link on Facebook. All of a sudden one day I started noticing that the posts would get deleted a few minutes after I posted them, then they started blocking me from posting the links outright.
To be honest I would be really surprised if this was on purpose and not a malfunction of their spam filters. Pixelfed isn't in the same ballpark as Instagram, struggling to think how having a company policy to filter out its links would be worth the bad publicity - for basically no reason.
When Facebook started it was not about "connecting people", it was about rating girls' fuckability on campus. Zuck has always been a misogynistic arsehole.
I don’t know, I have never found it beneficial at all to write paragraphs to a man explaining how he hurt me.
You could probably edit half of this out and instead laugh at him for being so jealous of your little independent website that he’s terrified to let people see it.
When money and power get in the head of the people they becomes another persons, puppets of administration dramas. How unhappy happens when you must down the knees to your enemy ? Play your game! Do your best ! The Big Brother watches everything.He do not known do other thing. Do not be romantic ! Be smart !
"It was about connecting people, not maximizing engagement metrics."
No. It was exactly NOT about connecting people. It never was. It was about making money. Ever since.
Am I really one of the last people left on planet earth remembering Mark Z. having written "I don't know why. They 'trust me'. Dumb fucks." about facebook users? I cannot believe this...
@wonka @ctrl Wise words from Cory Doctorow; "From now on, I will put more weight on how easy it is to leave a service than on what I get from staying. A bad service that you can easily switch away from is incentivized to improve, and if the incentive fails, you can leave."
Der CDU-Kanzlerkandidat möchte Menschen ausbürgern, die straffällig geworden sind. Damit gefährdet er den gesellschaftlichen Frieden in Deutschland. taz.de/!6058716
Das ist reiner Populismus, die Staatsangehörigkeit kann nicht wegen Straffälligkeit entzogen werden. Auch Sicherheitsbedenken sind kein Grund. Und nach fünf Jahren geht das gar nicht mehr. Punkt. Freundliche Grüße, Ihr Bundesverfassungsgericht (Urteil aus 2006). Ende der Diskussion.
Er gefährdet mitnichten nur den gesellschaftlichen Frieden. Der Kurs, den die CDU/CSU gerade fährt, verstößt gegen Menschenwürde und gegen das Gleichheitsprinzip - und damit gegen die Verfassung. Was Friedrich Merz als Jurist vermutlich weiß; ebenso wie der Rest des Vorstands von CDU und CSU. Es scheint ihnen jedoch vollständig egal zu sein, was die Frage aufwirft, ob die Verfassungstreue der Union mehr ist als ein Lippenbekenntnis.
Welcome to all! How can we improve the #onboarding process? If you joined in the past few weeks can you let us know what was difficult when you joined and/or once you had joined?
For example:
I didn't know which server to join
it took too long for my joining request to get accepted
I wasn't sure how to find people to follow
(The aim of this post is not to collect answers to the problems but rather detect all potential obstacles to joining & starting to use Mastodon. Please boost around! 🔄)
finding new people to follow is hard. I wish there was more feed like `java champions` or `MS mvps` when I follow those it will follow all the members in there like bsky discover feed
Good call. I hear this a lot. Two good routes for this:
Follow hashtags. Most people use them liberally. If followed, they’ll show up right in your feed.
Search these new Fediverse starter packs. They borrowed the idea from BlueSky. It’s new and thin, but it will get there (I’m working on a few to share).
Let's try it again: This post from #Mastodon can reach the whole #Fediverse, #Bluesky & more. That's #Sharkey, #Pixefeld (hence the pic), #Mbin, #Lemmy, #Friendica, #Hometown, #Akkoma...
Das zeigt auch mal wieder sehr gut, wo es bei Bluesky hakt. Ich kriege den Post nämlich nicht über Mastodon aufgerufen, kann ihn somit nicht per Mastodon teilen. #BlueskyIstSTuhl Hier mein ausführlicher Rant über Bluesky: troet.cafe/@hallunke23/1131042…
Habe mich grad eben etwas mit Bluesky befasst.
Fazit: Bluesky ist eine Kathastrophe.
1) Als erstes Problem wäre da die Adressierung von Blueskynutzern aus Mastodon heraus. Blueskynutzer sind unter M.
But I guess my wife needs to appear as a user in the "Share calendar" window, right?!
That is unfortunately not the case.
instead of using the subscription link, you could share your individual calendars with each others nextcloud accounts from inside nextcloud.
So you just have to import your "own" calendar within davx5 and you get all calendars, that are shared with you.
Maybe this at least avoids the redirect error from the subscription link.
Hope that helps