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The Darkling Thrush


I leant upon a coppice gate
When Frost was spectre-grey,
And Winter's dregs made desolate
The weakening eye of day.
The tangled bine-stems scored the sky
Like strings of broken lyres,
And all mankind that haunted nigh
Had sought their household fires.

The land's sharp features seemed to be
The Century's corpse outleant,
His crypt the cloudy canopy,
The wind his death-lament.
The ancient pulse of germ and birth
Was shrunken hard and dry,
And every spirit upon earth
Seemed fervourless as I.

At once a voice arose among
The bleak twigs overhead
In a full-hearted evensong
Of joy illimited;
An aged thrush, frail, gaunt, and small,
In blast-beruffled plume,
Had chosen thus to fling his soul
Upon the growing gloom.

So little cause for carolings
Of such ecstatic sound
Was written on terrestrial things
Afar or nigh around,
That I could think there trembled through
His happy good-night air
Some blessed Hope, whereof he knew
And I was unaware.

-- Thomas Hardy

#Poetry #Hope



Remembering the Dream:


These were my grandchildren in 2012 and in 2020:

In them you will find the heritage of parents and grandparents from Central America, Africa, the Caribbean, the British Isles, and Most of Europe. As they have grown and matured, they also represent a multitude of CIS and LGTBQ backgrounds as well. Indeed, many of them have now chosen partners of their own that they love and cherish, regardless of their DNA or their cultural and sexual identities.

And some of them are now having children of their own! Evelia and I as Great-Grandparents, who would have believed it???

I cannot express how proud I am to have been a part of their lives and how much I believe that their background and beliefs have enriched mine.

I am also aware that while we have come far with regards to diversity and tolerance, we still have a long ways to go. It wasn’t that many years ago that there were places myself, my Wife, and our own children could not go without a look, a remark, or a singular attitude that made it clear our mixed family was an aberration that wasn’t approved of. Over a lifetime of marriage however, we saw more acceptance and in good moments, indifference, which is the ultimate acknowledgment that the color of our skins didn’t matter when it came to who we chose to love and who we choose to be.

But the struggle remains real, and I will concede that when, many years ago and many times revised now, I wrote the first version of this tribute to the work of Martin Luther King, I truly believed that in the United States at least I would see the day when everyone would be judged by the Content of Their Character, instead of the Color of Their Skin, Who They Choose to Love, Or Who They Identify As. However as I reach my 60th year in this World, and on this day of stark contrasts in the way our leaders wish to define that path forward, I have come to the sad conclusion that it won’t fully happen in my lifetime.

But like Dr. King, I still believe it will someday happen, and the three(!!!) generations that now succeed me in my and Evelia’s children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren are the reason why.

For they are the colorblind generations, and they are the Leaders of the future. Their diversity and the way they see the world continue to instill in me unshakable faith that The Dream will be achieved.

Thank you, Mr. King for continuing to show us the way.




Friendica Test Drive


Hello. I'm wanting to ditch FB so I'm trying out some other non-techbro social media platforms. Is Friendica a good option? How about Counter Social, Hive Social, or Diaspora?
in reply to Susan Barthel

The thing that friendica has over sites like Counter Social and Hive Social (and to a certain extent diaspora) is that it is a part of what is known as the fediverse. In short, the fediverse is a network of social media sites that communicate with each other, and share content within each other's feeds. So you will see posts on Friendica from a bunch of different places around the web, including Mastodon (a twitter like site), Pixelfed (an Instagram like site), WordPress, flipbook, Bluesky, and many others. The other benefit is that these platforms are not owned by a single individual, but rather are independent servers hosting open source software. You can communicate seamlessly between all of these servers, both within the platform, and between platforms. So it is a diverse and decentralized ecosystem of social networks, vs a single privately owned social network that are those other sites you mentioned, making it immune to takeover by billionaires. Diaspora is technically a part of the fediverse, but only marginally. It is also not really being developed by the original creators as far as I know, whereas friendica is still under active development and improvement.

The only downside to Friendica as I see it is the learning curve, but there are lots of helpful people on here willing to help you learn, so don't be afraid to ask questions!




Hello!


Hi, I am new to Friendica! I like the inteface, I think this could be a great alternative to FB/Meta. The only thing it needs is a LOT more users. Could there be a grassroots, coordinated effort to make this a happening place?
in reply to Tim

I totally agree. I think #freeourfeeds is a good campaign to get involved with, but other than that I am not hearing much talk of it. I have tried to get my family and friends to join, to no avail.
in reply to Tim

@tim I've been noticing a significant influx of users across fediverse, be it Friendica, Mastodon, Lemmy and, especially, Pixelfed. There are new users arriving, and it's a real organic growth.

in reply to Julie

Yup, I'm being a drive by reply guy with the best of intentions here, as well as repost older stuff I've written so theres something here. 😊

in reply to Julie

Sounds like a good plan. I'm in a local writing group called "Shut up and Write!", we meet up sometimes, and sometimes writing happens. Write on!


Groups?


I'd like to create a new group here on Friendica, not sure how to go about it. I don't have the option on the right side of the Contacts page, as per the manual. I was thinking of creating one art and one tech group.

#groups #friendica #socialmedia

in reply to Eugenia Loli

I think SettingsManage accountsRegister an additional account is where the treasure is buried.
in reply to Lemmus

That is strange that you cannot see the plus sign. Here is a picture of what it looks like on mobile, with the plus sign circled in blue. The accounts page is definitely another way to go about it, but most people would not think adding an account is how you would create a group, so better explanation/UI would be helpful.
in reply to Rob Meyer

Can't see the screenshot right now either ("resource may become available later"), will try to remember the conversation and return later to see if the server is happier then.
in reply to Lemmus

I'm on shoddy cell service, so that might be the issue. It's not showing up in the post for me either, despite the bbcode being present.
in reply to Rob Meyer

The image is not showing here either. Also, I don't see the plus sign either for the groups...



Today is Martin Luther King Jr Day. A day to honor King, a great leader, a champion of human rights, one of history’s greatest Americans. This takes precedence over any other events today as I’m sure everyone will understand.



Friendica & Bluesky


Is there a friendica/bluesky bridge that does the same thing as the mastodon/bluesky bridge? Let's one follow bluesky accounts on friendica?


#friendica #Friendica-Support

in reply to Mark

Mastodon/Bluesky bridge should work the same for Friendica.

But there is more. There is a Friendica-specific "bridge" to Bluesky, which connects your Bluesky account to Friendica. This makes Friendica a Bluesky client, so you will be able to interact with any Bluesky account (not only these who opted in to federation to Mastodon) - as you will interact with them as a Bluesky user.

Go to Settings → Social Networks. Do you see "Bluesky Import/Export"? If not, ask your admin to add it.

The same thing can be possible with Tumblr (which does not even federate!)





Nefandous


Seems apt for today in the US

nefandous

PRONUNCIATION:
(nuh-FAN-duhs)

MEANING:
adjective: So wicked as to defy description: abominable, appalling.

ETYMOLOGY:
From Latin nefandus (wicked), from ne- (not) + fandus (to be spoken), gerundive (verbal adjective) of fari (to speak). Earliest documented use: 1649.

#AWordADay







So cold out there (-37) I swear I just saw a couple of crows towing a raven trying to get it started...



Without #contacts / #friends it is rather difficult to become motivated #posting here. Already searched contacts lists for shared #interests... hard to find.

#newhere

in reply to Gunivortus

Also, I suspect part of the problem is that it seems there is a problem with federation towards Mastodon, where most of the people are. I have a Mastodon account where I follow my Friendica account, and still nothing I have posted here has shown up on Mastodon. The other way around seems to work perfectly fine. (Could be an effect of the fancier access rules of Friendica and I have made the problem myself, of course. I don't know, I'm a newbie on Friendica.)

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in reply to Lemmus

I have shared this issue with the admin of friendica.world, and they said they believe it to be an issue with the backend of Friendica that is leading messages to be severely delayed. They put in a fix, and the message queue and been going down, but it is still in the 100's of thousands of messages waiting to be delivered.


একজন আবেগপ্রবণের প্রতিক্রিয়া অতি ক্ষুদ্র বিষয়ে হতে পারে!


রাস্তায় কোন ব্যান্ড দল ঢোল বাজিয়ে গেলে, কোন রাজনৈতিক অনুষ্ঠানের আনন্দ মিছিল, ঈদের আনন্দ। এক কথায় বাড়ীর সামনের এই রাস্তায় কিছু ঘটলেই আমার ছোট বোন ঘড়ের যেখানেই থাকুক, যে অবস্থায়ই থাকুক ছুটে যেত। গেইটের দরজা খোলার মত বুদ্ধি তার ছিলনা। গেইটের সামান্য ফাঁকা জায়গা দিয়ে তাকিয়ে দেখার চেষ্টা করত কি হচ্ছে। ঢোল ও ঝুমঝুমির শব্দ তাকে অত্যন্ত আকর্ষণ করত। শুনলেই ছুটে যেত। এরকম হাজারো স্মৃতি আমার চোখ আজ ছলছল করে দেয়। কিছুক্ষণ আগেই মাইক বাজিয়ে একজন গান গাইতে গাইতে গেল! আমার বোন আর ছুটে গেল না!




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"Only those who step out of the frame can see the whole picture"


So this is Friendica


Off to start this journey - let's see where it leads.


Groups - do they actually exist


When I ask people why they're still on Facebook they all mention closed communities inside groups. So - if I am to have any chance of moving people to Friendica we need the same kind of open or closed communities here.

But I can't really see where to create a community like that? Can you even do it?

Edit: What I want from a group is:

* Can be open or closed
* Members don't have to be friends to be in the group
* Group creator/admin can act as moderator, or elevate other people to mods, inside group

in reply to Carsten Boll

Yes, they exist! They are set up in a somewhat strange way however, needing to create a new account that will serve as the group itself.

The basic steps to create a group are:

1.) click on contacts (the multiple people icon)
2.) under the groups box to the right, click the plus sign to create a new group
3.) enter the E-mail/password for the new account

More details below:

wiki.friendi.ca/docs/groups-an…

in reply to Rob Meyer

That said, this is an area that I personally think needs attention from the devs. I think there needs to be a groups icon up top (arguably just repurpose the local/global community icon since it is redundant) that takes you to a more user friendly groups management dashboard, both for groups you're following, their feeds, and the ones you manage yourself. You should not be left asking questions like this, when the functionality does exist. It needs to be more streamlined and easy to use.
in reply to Rob Meyer

I don't see any such groups box on the right on my friendica.world contacts page.
in reply to Carsten Boll

Same here, I need to go to SettingsManage accountsRegister an additional account to get at that stuff. And it's beyond counter intuitive that to create a forum for my friends, the answer is to create a additional account and make that a Community Group account. Good example of a place where hiding some of the implementation details in the UI would help.