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I'm relatively impressed


So, I now have to wear a continuous glucose monitor (CGM). I must admit, I'm surprised. I have a big issue with needles and was afraid of putting this thing on my arm every 2 weeks. (Freestyle Libra 2) While I did need a little experienced help in placement the first time... I didn't feel anything. There was the pressure of something pressing against my arm, obviously, but nothing beyond that. Honestly, I can't even feel it right now. Technology has come a long way and I'm severely grateful there's an option to stabbing a finger 3+ times a day, cause that wasn't going to happen. Just can't. The instructions could definitely be clearer, even with the pics. The app tells you how to put it on, but nothing really says that you have to scan the sensor with the app to GET those instructions, and it implies you scan after you put it on your arm. Kind of a stupid loop there. Once you're on and in the app, though, it's nicely explanatory and even shows how many days until it's time to change the sensor. We'll see how well this works. I'm just mainly concerned about sleeping. I put it on the side I don't sleep on, but you're also supposed to switch sides each time. I just don't normally or comfortably sleep on the other side or my back. Sigh. Now I'm just waiting for the covering patches to arrive today that I ordered. Those will be reviewed separately. Stay tuned!



Jip van den Toorn

(on the left: "antisemite". on the right: "just a very happy bilionaire".



iOS App for Friendica?


So many people are looking for alternatives to Meta products right now, but the barrier to entry to Fediverse social networks remains too high for most users, especially those still active on legacy platforms like Facebook. A specific pain-point I am encountering in trying to assist folks in making the leap is the lack of mobile clients for iOS users. Are there any plans for an iOS app for Friendica? Or an iOS version of a multi-account manager like Fedilab?

#fediversehelp #friendicahelp #iphonehelp #iphone #iOShelp #ios #friendica #metarefugee



So interesting setting up in a new place


Generally, I don't allow Anon access to my stuff. Generally. I mean, it's a route to getting harassed and I've no interest in feeding trolls of any variety, so I default to No Anon Access... pretty much everywhere.

But I'm brand new here and thus allowing Anon people to see what (little) I've posted makes sense. No one's gonna follow a blank screen, you know?

So Anon now has access. We'll see how that goes. I may change that over time or I may explore the permissions thing. Well. I WILL explore the permissions thing but that can wait for, you know, day 3 or 4 or whatever.

Relatedly, I 99% of the time do not post my face online. I'm not fond of photos of me in the first place. My maternal grandmother was outright obsessed with taking pictures so much of my childhood memories feature me posing for roll after roll after roll of film to be taken. So very over that.

I don't want to be remembered for my face.

I want to be remembered for my stories.

My art. The way I interacted with people and the things I did. I'm solidly queer (aro/ace and agender) so my actual physical body is... never what I wish it were, in part because what I wish my body was shifts moment to moment, day to day.

Which explains a lot of what I write, actually. So many queer characters. So much figuring out of love and life and gender when the world is shifting around one.

And, apropos of world shifts of the Most Unwelcome kind, I think I'll do a bit of promo for one of my (far too many) series: Debts to Recover.

This is the series 2nd highest on the spice setting out of all the stories I've written. It's got BDSM (consensual and ...very not), both debt and outright slavery, billionaires as true lords over everyone else and violent resistance to them. All told through the little guy's eyes.

It's dark. I took the current day at the time and projected it in the Worst Timeline direction. Honestly, I can see this happening especially with those in charge in the USA now. It horrifies me. One of the stories is bloody, gruesome, full of torture and both of the characters involved see it as a love story, which is... my brain surprised me that day.

Either way, it's full of people getting knocked down and getting back up despite the pain, despite the trauma, despite the abject hopelessness of their situation. There are rich people (well, one rich man) who tries his damnedest to actually be a good person.

Seems appropriate to everything going on right now.

(And yes, you have to click through to your preferred site. Gotta get my Shopify store set up. It's on the list for 2025. I'm still gonna try and point people at my stories even though it's Not Done Yet.)

Right. I have Done a Promotion, in a place where no one is likely to see it. *laughs* But that's okay. Back to work for me.




He just wanted to get a job😅😳 youtube.com/shorts/j3X2ebJGMeI…




Hillrest reopening


Coming along nicely.


I don’t understand the way the content warnings work here. In the friendica.world web ui i cannot even see them on my own post. Via phanpy.social i do see them. I don’t find anywhere to set / modify / remove them in my own post. Can someone point me to settings / docs about this?


Death Whisperer 2


#DeathWhisperer2 la secuela de la película tailandesa de terror que estará en cines mexicanos este mes,
#xarliclub #movie #movies #cine #cinema #film #films #peli #pelis #pelicula #peliculas #tv #cinemastodon #filmsky 🎬 #terror #horror #susurrosmortales
xarli.club/2025/01/death-whisp…


Something simple and easy you can do to improve your security


Reboot your devices often. Many types of malware persist in-memory only, so a reboot will effectively remove them.

#security #infosec #tip



The Ghost Station


#TheGhostStation ¿Alguna vez habían oído de fantasmas en el metro? Próximamente en cines en México.
#xarliclub #movie #movies #cine #cinema #film #films #peli #pelis #pelicula #peliculas #tv #cinemastodon #filmsky 🎬 #horror #terror
xarli.club/2025/01/the-ghost-s…



Hi, I'm new


Hi, I'm Petra from Cologne, Germany. I dabbled with Mastodon and the Fediverse years ago but never really got into it. Let's see if it works this time. I am mainly looking for people who are talking about personal things. I am very politically interested but recently had to cut back on consuming news in order to stay sane (haha, more or less). I love traveling, but have never left Europe (there are still so many interesting places I haven't seen yet), animals, plants (I do a bit of urban gardening on my big balconies), music (Marillion, Dido, Porcupine Tree, Vanessa Carlton and so forth), drawing, paper crafting, photography, art, and lots of other things. It would be really nice to find a few likeminded people to chat with.
in reply to Petra

Hi, i'm a fan of (classic) Marillion and Porcupine Tree too! I'm a cartoonist, dad and pet owner in the US.
in reply to Neal

Hi Neal, if you mean Fish-era Marillion we're not on the same page, though, I love Hogarth-era Marillion. 😄
in reply to Petra

My friends and I were way into Fish-era Marillion in high school. When he left (same year we graduated) it was too big a shift for us and we never got into the later stuff. I'm sure it's great though


Elon Musk is a school shooter in the halls of the high school of the world.
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